Rope

ropeAKA Rope Bondage or Kinbaku (緊縛) means “tight binding,” while Kinbaku-bi (緊縛美) literally means “the beauty of tight binding.” Kinbaku is a Japanese style of bondage or BDSM which involves tying a person up using simple yet visually intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of … Continue readingRope

Dungeon

A BDSM dungeon is an indoor space designated specifically for BDSM play or BDSM scenes. These spaces are usually stocked with various BDSM toys and equipment which can be used during scenes. Some dungeons may even come equipped with shackles on the walls or St. … Continue readingDungeon

Paddling

PaddlingPaddling refers to a form of sexual practice where one person, usually the submissive, is repeatedly struck by their dominant. This brings sexual gratification to all parties and is generally consensual. Erotic paddling is also regarded as impact play, which is a form of BDSM. … Continue readingPaddling

Crops

CropsAKA Riding crops are among the most popular accessories used during impact and sensation play. This accessory can also be used during mild to intense BDSM sessions, erotic role-playing, or power exchange. Riding crops often vary in thickness and can also be enhanced with metal … Continue readingCrops

Leash Training

Leash TrainingAKA Animal roleplay may also be found in BDSM contexts, where an individual may take part in a dominant/submissive relationship by being treated as an animal. The activity is often referred to as petplay. However, not all types of animal roleplay within BDSM are … Continue readingLeash Training

Flogged

FloggedBeat (someone) with a whip or stick as punishment or torture. “the stolen horses will be returned and the thieves flogged” synonyms: whip, scourge, flagellate, lash, birch, switch, tan, strap, belt, cane, thrash, beat, leather, tan/whip someone’s hide, give someone a hiding, beat the living … Continue readingFlogged

Femdom

Female dominance (femdom) refers to a BDSM scene or relationship in which a female is the dominant partner, or top partner. A dominant female may have a number of different names, including dominatrix, mistress or madame. Female dominants often engage in BDSM activities such as … Continue readingFemdom

Sadomasochism

Sadomasochism is defined as a sexual enjoyment of both sadism (a desire to give pain) and masochism (a desire to receive pain). When a couple is in a relationship where the woman enjoys whipping the man and the man enjoys being whipped and both derive … Continue readingSadomasochism

St Andrews Cross

The St. Andrew’s Cross and the spanking bench are the most common pieces of BDSM furniture. Saltires are versatile and easy to manufacture. They are usually firmly attached to a wall, and is distinguished from a BDSM-style Catherine Wheel, which has a central hinge and … Continue readingSt Andrews Cross

Flogger

A flogger is a device used to flog, or whip, a consenting partner, usually during a BDSM scene. Floggers typically consist of several tails attached to a rigid handle. The tails may be made from a number of materials, including horsehair, rubber, or leather. In … Continue readingFlogger